甜言蜜语 Sweet Talk

Chinese Version:
有哪个女生不喜欢甜言蜜语的？

有个男生跟我说过他不太会讲话，尤其是面对女生的时候。
他又提起我跟另一的男性朋友很聊得来，
他很羡慕那位朋友很会讲话，人缘也很好。
他表示要向他学习。

我没给他什么回应就转换话题了。
其实，我想告诉他那位朋友就是会讲甜言蜜语所以人缘好。

尤其对女生说话时，男生偶尔讲一些甜言蜜语，
就会让女生感觉特别好。

甜言蜜语就像谈话中的调味料。
当整个交谈中，都是严肃或正经的话题，
那么就会很无趣。
当你加了一些调味料，就会更有趣，
更容易讨人欢心。

当然这调味料不可以放太多，
如果太多了，就会腻或者让人觉得你很假惺惺。
放这调味料之前，你也必须看对象是谁，与你的关系如何。

切记：男性是用脑袋去生活的， 而女性是用心去生活的。
如果要得到女性的心， 那么就请用心去感动她，而不是脑袋。

English Version:
Every girls like to listen to sweet words.

A guy told me that he doesn't good at communication, especially with girls.
He said another friend of us is very good at this.
He said he wanted to learn from him.

I didn't answer him anything and switched topic.
Actually, I was wanting to tell him that the friend is good at that
because he knows how to talk "sweetly".

Especially talking to girls, guys need to be smart to talk "sweetly".
This will makes girls feel good.

This is something like Seasoning.
If the whole conversation is in formal type of topic,
that will be boring.
When you add in seasoning, this will become interesting.

Of course, you cannot put too much of this kind of seasoning.
If you put too much, then people will think that you are just acting.
Before you put this seasoning into your conversation,
please consider who is the one you are talking to,
and what kind of relationship are you in with that person.

Remarks: Men use brains to live, Women use hearts to live.
If you want to get women' hearts,
please use heart to touch her but not your brain.